Dances Aren't the Product, YOU ARE; Sell Yourself.
*No matter where they dance, what their employee status is, topless or nude; there's a longstanding but unwritten rule that's been forgotten, YOU'RE NOT SELLING THE RIGHT PRODUCT!
*I've lost count of how often I was complimented on various efforts I put into my job. Dancers think their outfits don't make a difference. They do. On the pole? Know the crowd. They used to remember pole tricks were more lucrative, primarily, nights; especially weekend nights. It's important to also focus on sensuality, making the people watching you want to get you alone, meeting someone's eyes.. Places where dancers are more focused on their appearance, attitude, etc. notoriously have an easier time at work. What happened to being a fantasy?
*The problem is DANCES AREN'T WHAT YOU'RE SELLING, YOU'RE SELLING YOURSELF! YOU ARE THE PRODUCT, NOT LAPDANCES!
*How often do dancers successfully get any dances when all they do is walk around asking if guys want dances? Ironically, that's the LEAST effective method. Since DANCERS are supposed to sell themselves to the customer. It's not right to accuse every top earner of using unethical methods against you to make more. The ONLY thing you need to make all about yourself is to perfect the Product you're selling. Watch dancers who are always changing clothes, stay on the floor instead of the back, and actually appear to enjoy themselves on stage. They're not selling lap dances by doing those things, are they?
*They're putting effort and let's just say it, money into their self-promotion. An ad campaign. Think of it in whatever terms you need to to remember YOU are the Product and the results are also your choice. Sensuality, eye contact, moving around and not just grind for 3 minutes; all simple ways to, again, make them want more of you, the Product. You provide a service. You SELL yourself.
*It's not your job to make all the money for the clubs, but it is your job to do your part in keeping it open. It's YOUR JOB! Especially dancers who already danced in every club and have a lot more to lose. Don't risk it. Don't forget yourself. Don't lower your worth. Don't do anything desperate to ruin your life.
*If ALL dancers can keep in mind that they're not there to sell dances, they have to sell themselves first; and a place known for quality products and brands is always where people want to go first. Brand yourself well. You're worth a lot and you can make everyone believe it as long as you do.
*I've lost count of how often I was complimented on various efforts I put into my job. Dancers think their outfits don't make a difference. They do. On the pole? Know the crowd. They used to remember pole tricks were more lucrative, primarily, nights; especially weekend nights. It's important to also focus on sensuality, making the people watching you want to get you alone, meeting someone's eyes.. Places where dancers are more focused on their appearance, attitude, etc. notoriously have an easier time at work. What happened to being a fantasy?
*The problem is DANCES AREN'T WHAT YOU'RE SELLING, YOU'RE SELLING YOURSELF! YOU ARE THE PRODUCT, NOT LAPDANCES!
*How often do dancers successfully get any dances when all they do is walk around asking if guys want dances? Ironically, that's the LEAST effective method. Since DANCERS are supposed to sell themselves to the customer. It's not right to accuse every top earner of using unethical methods against you to make more. The ONLY thing you need to make all about yourself is to perfect the Product you're selling. Watch dancers who are always changing clothes, stay on the floor instead of the back, and actually appear to enjoy themselves on stage. They're not selling lap dances by doing those things, are they?
*They're putting effort and let's just say it, money into their self-promotion. An ad campaign. Think of it in whatever terms you need to to remember YOU are the Product and the results are also your choice. Sensuality, eye contact, moving around and not just grind for 3 minutes; all simple ways to, again, make them want more of you, the Product. You provide a service. You SELL yourself.
*It's not your job to make all the money for the clubs, but it is your job to do your part in keeping it open. It's YOUR JOB! Especially dancers who already danced in every club and have a lot more to lose. Don't risk it. Don't forget yourself. Don't lower your worth. Don't do anything desperate to ruin your life.
*If ALL dancers can keep in mind that they're not there to sell dances, they have to sell themselves first; and a place known for quality products and brands is always where people want to go first. Brand yourself well. You're worth a lot and you can make everyone believe it as long as you do.
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