Being Shortsighted Led to Justification Child Endangerment & Sexual Assault; STOP GIVING BAD ADVICE!

***READ CAREFULLY! I'M TRYING TO HELP SOME VERY LOST AND DAMAGED PEOPLE! I NEED you to SEE THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR IRRESPONSIBLE ACTIONS!***

 ***I AM PRO LEGALIZATION, I SUPPORT ALL SEX WORKERS! IT'S YOUR BUSINESS WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR OWN BODY! BUT YOU'RE NOT AN ESCORT, YOU'RE A STRIPPER HURTING YOUR SISTERS ON PURPOSE!!! WHOREPHOBIA IS A MADE UP WORD AND I DON'T PUT UP WITH IT! STOP. MAKING. EXCUSES. FOR. RECKLESS. CHOICES!***

*I was a teenage mom.. My daughter, Alexia Denise, was stillborn. That doesn't change the fact that she IS my daughter. That said, having stripped for 12 years myself, I DON'T APPRECIATE PEOPLE TELLING SOMEONE'S BABY GIRL THAT SHE SHOULD RISK SOLICITATION CHARGES BECAUSE "It's her choice".. NO! It ISN'T!! Alexia is 19 and I would burn a club down with EVERYONE IN IT if a bunch of irresponsible dancers EVER gave her the idea that it's okay to exchange money for sexual favors IN A PLACE WHERE PEOPLE WORK THEIR ASSES OFF! Learn how to be a stripper, or GTFO of clubs and figure it out. You are selfish and you're HURTING EVERYONE, INCLUDING YOUR OWN CHILDREN!!

 *Think HARD if you're a mom.. Do you WANT your son to grow up thinking he can go to a club & risk HIS future; because YOU decided that federal laws are an option, turned the industry into the UGLY CLICHÉ SOCIETY MAKES IT OUT TO BE? IS a $50 BJ worth LOSING EVERYTHING over? Do you believe you're ONLY worth the price of a dance? YOU'RE WORTH SO MUCH MORE!! Do you WANT TO get busted, arrested and have your kids in foster care??

WHAT IF YOUR 18 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WAS GETTING ALL THIS BULLSHIT "ADVICE".. It's NOT A JUSTIFICATION IT'S AN EXCUSE!! You're literally villainous toward strippers DOING THEIR JOBS RIGHT! You're selfish because you DGAF that YOUR IRRESPONSIBLE ACTIONS HAVE MAJOR REPERCUSSIONS!! Let's talk about what your "hustle" does to people and HOW DEEP IT GOES, SHALL WE!? The Butterfly effect is inevitable in most choices in life..

 *"I'm doing what I have to for my kids".. Actually, your putting them AT RISK! No more trying to justify your bullshit and THERE'S NO EXCUSE FOR NEGLIGENCE THAT AFFECTS YOUR CHILDREN!! If there's a sting or you're caught there are MORE implications than a solicitation of prostitution charge; which STAYS on your record!

 *1) You're risking the ENTIRE club being shut down, your clueless boss could be hit out of left field with a LEGITIMATE trafficking charge BECAUSE YOU NEEDED AN EXTRA $100! Your kids will LOSE THEIR MOTHER! You'll have your custody taken away, possibly FOREVER!

*2) Clubs are now RIDDLED with nasty men who don't even ask for permission to violate women 75% of the time! DON'T EXPECT THEM TO RESPECT YOU IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT YOURSELF! THEY FEED OFF THAT WEAKNESS!! It's NOT victim blaming. This is a FACT! Strippers who decided strip clubs are now brothels, without so much as WORKING TOWARD decriminalizing first; or legalize across the board. Until then YOU'RE PUTTING EVERYONE'S FUTURE AT RISK, NOT JUST YOURS!!  FACT: the charges below are VERY REAL!

        * Once money exchanges hands for a sexual favor, even just AGREEING and taking money from an undercover cop will get you arrested! YOU KNOW THE LAWS! BREAKING THEM WON'T CHANGE THEM FOR THE BETTER; IF ANYTHING, IT WILL MAKE LEGALIZATION HARDER! You've GOT TO LEARN about laws and POLITICS! Right now you're a bunch of loose cannons making shit up to SHAME OTHERS AND HIDE YOUR GUILT OR SELF-LOATHING!!

         * What if you ARE arrested and the club has now reached it's citation limit. You will NOT COME BACK TO AN OPEN CLUB! Meanwhile your coworkers, OTHER PARENTS are working one day, and the next day they drive 2 hours to find the place boarded up!! Now MANY strippers are fucked! Some FORCED to do shit they always REFUSED TO DO, because YOU MADE SURE THEIR 'LAST RESORT' CLUB CLOSED DOWN. FOREVR! Do you have ANY idea how much TRAUMA YOUR ACTIONS INFLICT ON OTHERS???? Strippers have GOOD reasons that have NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU as to why they don't want to be touched and DON'T APPRECIATE YOU MAKING SEX OFFENDERS THINK WE'RE ALL WILLING TO DO WHATEVER ILLEGAL SHIT FOR MONEY THAT LASTS LESS THAN A DAY! YOU'RE TEACHING THEM THAT WE BELIEVE WE'RE WORTHLESS AND FEEDING STIGMAS!!

          *Do you WANT your son to be a sex offender or a daughter who's REPEATEDLY VIOLATED AND TRAUMATIZED?! We ALL have childhood trauma or have suffered sexual traumas... Trust me. Giving rapists what they want to spare yourself further trauma MAKES SENSE! I WAS THERE... Just not at this capacity! THE SAME DANCERS SHAMING ETHICAL STRIPPERS WHO DON'T HATE THEMSELVES IS A DEFENSE MECHANISM! YOU'RE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF AND CAN'T ADMIT IT; BUT MOST OF US SEE IT!! If you have NO REMORSE after crossing YOUR OWN boundaries, then you're a sociopath and none of this will matter; because you don't care. You have NO conscience. So.. You either don't SEE YOUR OWN WORTH OR YOU'RE A COMMON SOCIOPATH! Either way, you need HELP!

 *I've not said a single thing that isn't a FACT! My opinion is irrelevant. This is about YOU! YOU NEED TO LEARN THAT YOUR ENTITLEMENT IS HURTING PEOPLE!! I made stacks ONLY BY DANCING because I busted ass. I put EFFORT into everything! From my outfits, to stage performance, and yes LAPDANCES! Do guys line up for you? They WILL line up for an incredible lap dance that requires NO extras.. It's simple. MOVE AROUND! Be seductive. Look in their eyes. Ask them to pull your hair. Pin down their arms.. Just STOP PUTTING EVERYONE FROM YOUR BOSSS TO OTHER PEOPLE'S CHILDREN AT RISK!

 *We've ALL been desperate.. Nowadays with how clubs are, WHO ISN'T?! Do you REALLY feel ZERO GUILT when you made $500 ILLEGALLY while someone else WORKED TWICE AS HARD, DOING THEIR JOBS RIGHT AND WALK WITH $20?! That's why girls started to begin with. Dead clubs= less money.

 *Too bad you're NOT THE ONLY STRIPPER!! If I could pull $300 out of 2 guys and NOT do extras, while the ones who do extras are complaining and on Snapchat. Not everyone wants that! I had a regular who saw me SO HE'D NEVER CHEAT! He LOVES his wife of, now, 30 years and only needed someone to talk dirty to, pull my hair & LIGHTLY choke me. He was gentle. He even APOLOGIZED to me if a family issue came up. Which I said was ludicrous and unnecessary. Family ALWAYS comes first!! A LOT OF MEN DON'T WANT TO BE TOUCHED; DO YOU REALIZE THAT WITHOUT THE GUY'S CONSENT YOU'RE DOING THE SAME THING YOU HATE MEN FOR! VIOLATING HIS BODY!!

 *The aforementioned regular danced with a girl once when I wasn't there on his usual day. She got asked to leave on her own or in handcuffs! She repeatedly tried to shove his hand in her panties and grabbing his dick. She got MAD when he turned down anymore dances. Complained to the owner and LEFT! He STILL feels guilty because of a stripper who WENT TOO FAR!

 *Stop for ONE MINUTE AND THINK! What gives YOU the right to break laws while simultaneously bitching about guys you don't want touching you. That's pretty fucked up. PICK ONE AND GO WITH IT! Wanna escort? Cool. AT THE CLUB YOU DANCE! THE REST IS ON YOU! Please STOP putting everyone at risk because YOU think your WILLFUL IGNORANCE IS JUSTIFIABLE! IT'S NOT!!

 *Rather than telling dancers who KNOW BETTER they're assholes, "not willing to do what it takes" (Seriously.. Fuck ANYONE who said that!) Accept that NOT ALL OF YOUR SISTERS WANT TO BE FORCED INTO SOMETHING THEY DON'T WANT!! Our clubs are dead. We get sex offenders and pedophiles, but the good guys are dwindling.. And you honestly believe ALL THE BLAME goes to someone you made sure YOU HID YOUR SHIT FROM; PROVING THAT YOU KNOW BETTER, BUT COULDN'T CARE LESS!!

 *That says one of two things to people.. 1) Unsolicited assault is OKAY (THESE MEN ARE IDIOTS... REMEMBER THAT!) 2) You're selfish and think you're ENTITLED to more because you're willing to CUT CORNERS! Here's an idea.. PRACTICE YOU MOVES AT HOME AND LEARN TO BE A PROPER STRIPPER!! NEED I REMIND EVERYONE OF UNIVERSAL STRIPPER ETIQUETTE?!?!?!

 *The MORE shit you talk about "dirty girls" the more obvious it is that you're only deflecting. YOU have NO IDEA that desperate and thoughtless actions will HAUNT YOU ONE DAY! There are MANY girls who can't forgive themselves over ONE stupid transgression! IF YOU DO EXTRAS, YOU NEED TO GO SOMEWHERE WHERE IT'S ALLOWED AND LEAVE THE CLEAN CLUBS TO THE STRIPPERS WHO REFUSE TO SUCK 3 RANDOM DICKS TO WALK WITH $300! That's sad and makes me sad!

 *To be able to literally dehumanize and place NO value on yourself is a pretty good indication that YOU'RE NOT MADE FOR THIS CAREER!! You need therapy, not $50 extra that you acquired by breaking laws and MAYBE your own boundaries. Maybe you WERE desperate. That's all the more reason NOT TO! Whether you want to hear it or not IS IRRELEVANT! THESE ARE HARD FACTS THAT YOUR OPINION CANNOT DEFEAT!!! You DO PERPETUATE RAPE CULTURE, RISK HUMAN TRAFFICKING CHARGES AGAINST YOUR BOSS; WHICH IS A FELONY AND WILL HAVE HIS/HER LICENSE REVOKED!! Then there's solicitation of prostitution.. That's what YOU face..

 *Do you want the following on your conscience or BE A RESPECTABLE PERSON WHO DOESN'T PUT THEIR HARDWORKING, LAW ABIDING COWORKERS AT RISK OF LOSING EVERYTHING? THEIR HOMES? Do you WANT THIS FOR YOUR DAUGHTER?! Assault that YOU IN PART ALLOWED! The fact that clubs say "touching tits is okay" is already fucked! They're fucking pimps! You work for a glorified pimp! Your body belongs to the club.. Not you! Take it up with your boss! GO WORK TOWARDS DECRIMINALIZING OR EVEN LEGALIZATION PROSTITUTION!!!!

GO WORK FOR THAT RIGHT YOU THINK YOU'RE ENTITLED TO, RATHER THAN PURPOSELY BREAK LAWS IN REBELLION. HOW OLD ARE YOU?!? EARN THE RIGHT TO DO WHAT YOU DO! YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO RUINING LIVES!! YOU ARE ENTITLED TO TRY AND FIGHT FOR LAWS TO CHANGE!! I'VE SPENT YEARS FIGHTING FOR YOUR RIGHTS AS A HUMAN BEING AND WORKER! THE POLITICIANS I WORK WITH TO CHANGE LAWS WILL NOT HELP YOU IF THEY FIND OUT ABOUT ALL THE ILLEGAL SHIT THAT HAPPENS! ASSAULT IS DIFFERENT. SOLICITATION OR WORSE, FINDING OUT A MANAGER TOOK MONEY TO LOOK THE OTHER WAY; THAT'S A TRAFFICKING CHARGE! PLEASE HAVE SOME SENSE, QUIT ACTING LIKE YOU'RE BETTER BECAUSE YOU DGAF ABOUT YOURSELF, NOR ANYONE ELSE!! That's selfish, narcissistic and HYPOCRITICAL! BECAUSE YOU BITCH ABOUT GIRLS WHEN YOU HAVE A BAD NIGHT! TALK SHIT ABOUT GIRLS WHO GET BUSTED FOR LESS THAN YOU DO, AND YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO MAKE UP YOUR OWN RULES AS YOU GO ALONG! LAWS ARE NOT AN OPTION! IF YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT ONE GUY AND BLOW THE NEXT ONE, THAT'S PROOF YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU'RE DOING; AND MANIPULATE EVERYONE! YOU ARE NOT THE VICTIM.. CRYING RAPE BECAUSE YOU GOT CAUGHT IS WORSE THAN FUCKING WITH EVERY OTHER DANCER BY DOING THINGS THAT ARE UNSANITARY, DANGEROUS, ILLEGAL AND MORALLY WRONG!!!!

PLEASE GET IT THROUGH YOUR HEADS! YOU ARE WRONG AND YOU OWE EVERY STRIPPER, CLUB OWNER, MEN YOU ASSAULTED WHO NEVER ASKED FOR IT, AND YOUR OWN FAMILY APOLOGIES UNTIL YOU'RE BLUE IN THE FACE! DON'T EVER CALL AN ETHICAL AND HARDWORKING STRIPPER "WHOREPHOBIC" AGAIN! IT'S NOT "WHOREARCHY" TO STATE FACTS THAT ACTUALLY HELP YOU AND AFFECT YOU! YOU'RE HURTING YOURSELF!!!! LEARN IT. ACCEPT IT! DENIAL WILL HURT YOU MORE; AND STOP DISRESPECTING YOUR BOSS WHO GAVE YOU A JOB YOU'RE UNGRATEFUL FOR AND THE DANCERS WHO ARE HOMELESS BECAUSE YOU TURNED THEIR ONCE GREAT STRIP CLUB INTO A BROTHEL! BE RATIONAL!!! HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT AND STOP THIS VILE AND DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE!!

STOP THWARTING PROGRESS THAT THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE HAVE MADE FOR YOU! SOME OF US SACRIFICE MONEY TO FOCUS ON MAKING YOUR JOB A LESS HOSTILE ENVIRONMENT. THAT'S A SLAP IN THE FACE! YOU DON'T GET TO TELL HONEST AND HARDWORKING PEOPLE THAT THEY'RE NOT WORKING HARD ENOUGH.. IT'S YOU THAT'S BEING LAZY! YOU'RE HELPING RUIN THE INDUSTRY. I WANT TO FIX IT FOR YOU!! YOU'RE UNGRATEFUL AND SELFISH TO THE CORE! You bitch about society not accepting you BUT WHY SHOULD THEY?! YOU HATE YOURSELF AND DISRESPECT YOUR OWN BODY! YOU WON'T GET ANYONE'S SYMPATHY NOR UNDERSTANDING BY DOING WHAT YOU DO! FOR THE SAKE OF THIS INDUSTRY AND ALL THE DANCERS FIGHTING FOR LAWS TO END ASSAULT, QUIT!!!! BECAUSE SAFETY LAWS WILL ENSURE NOBODY'S EVER VIOLATED AGAIN! AND YOU WON'T GET AWAY WITH IT! GET A NEW "HUSTLE" OR GET A DIFFERENT JOB!

It is what it is. The truth can't be bent. The fact is, extras lead to CHAOS! You're not helping anyone, LEAST OF ALL YOURSELF!! Get a grip on reality and STOP BEING AN ASSHOLE!!!!

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