And Then We Have Men Who Totally Get It!

Since there are so many men who are awful to us, I'd like to share the blog by a local photographer, whom I met at my old club and we've spoken a few times. His name is Curtis Isom and he does erotic photo shoots. He's on our side and what's happening really does piss a few men off. Not all hope is lost.. Excellent blog! You must read it.

http://eroticworldmedia.com/2015/06/the-turning-tide/

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